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Step 1: Say, "Put your number in my phone"
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Post #1   2/21/13 12:54:22PM   

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lol that shit had me rolling every time he said "Cuz I Said"

i'd love to know how may people put fake #s in there

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Post #2   2/21/13 1:09:21PM   

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The smart guys always send you a text right after you give them your number and then ask you to reply so they know for sure it's a real number up front.

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Posted by DancingDoll

The smart guys always send you a text right after you give them your number and then ask you to reply so they know for sure it's a real number up front.



If you're still like together or whatever, I always felt that if you text too soon you may get creeper status or annoying, You gotta play the waiting game, Chicks dig what they think they can't have or not get attention from because they begin to question themselves And generally speaking i think chicks are more confident than dudes because chicks know they're hot and if a dude doesn't take interest in them, i think it fucks with them....Or maybe i'm just all wrong.

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Posted by DancingDoll

The smart guys always send you a text right after you give them your number and then ask you to reply so they know for sure it's a real number up front.



The smart guys do the exact opposite. All doing that would do is reveal their insecurities, after they've just sold themselves as being confident. And if it's a bogus number, finding out so on the spot really has no benefit. Is he gonna demand the real one now, when she is obviously not interested?

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Actually not really. Smart guys usually do it under the idea of 'hey - I'm shooting you a text so that you have my number as well'. If the girl is interested on any level, she will text back a little confirmation or smiley face etc. This is absolutely the correct way to swap numbers and show baseline level interest. I would get zero creeper vibe from this.

To me - it's far worse to wait to establish some basic level of connection because it increases the possibility that the girl doesn't remember who the hell you were.

On rare occasion, I have given out a number very randomly because i was extremely drunk or I just wanted to move on and it's an easy way to tie up a conversation. Then the guy calls much later that week and I'm struggling to even remember who the person is, what bar we met at, what he looked like or what our conversation was about. If you're bar hopping or met multiple people or had a busy week... You just put that person totally out of your mind and then when they suddenly call a week later - you don't really care.

If the guy sends a quick text and I reply back and maybe have a brief/casual text exchange that same night (like 1-3 exchanges), it keeps him in my mind and now he's in my phone with an actual name/memory associated with him.

A quick intro text doesn't mean that you have to set up a date or push for anything right away - but it just opens/solidifies a window of acknowledging interest on a mutual level. Keep the initial text(s) funny/light/casual/witty. Then you can wait a couple of days and check back in and maybe set something up from there.

Guys worry WAY too much about this fear of showing too much interest or playing it cool and unless you've made a *major* first impression, the waiting game often has the opposite effect. You have to make sure you stoke the fire enough to keep a low flame burning otherwise you end up with just embers and smoke if you wait too long.

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But none of that has to do with



The smart guys always send you a text right after you give them your number and then ask you to reply so they know for sure it's a real number up front.



The amount of time taken to call/text someone should depend on the situation. And if it's a call/text to reciprocate the gesture, that's one thing, but putting the person on the spot benefits neither party.

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most of the time if it's a bar or whatever it's a number exchange and you both give your numbers. Or have her text you while shes there and save her number or vice versa...That always seemed to be the most common situation for me..

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Doesnt matter at all if you give a girl your number to call you or text. All they have to do is not call you
Or do the girl thing which is not answer your texting messages

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Posted by grappler0000

But none of that has to do with



The smart guys always send you a text right after you give them your number and then ask you to reply so they know for sure it's a real number up front.



The amount of time taken to call/text someone should depend on the situation. And if it's a call/text to reciprocate the gesture, that's one thing, but putting the person on the spot benefits neither party.



I meant more that it's a benefit for sending a quick text right away. It establishes whether there's interest pretty quickly. And the guy will know whether it's a real number or not up front and can avoid the whole 'wait 3-5 days to initiate contact' thing. I've had guys do that vaguely expectant "I just sent you a text" heads up.

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One easy way to exchange numbers is to give the girl you are talking to your number. Have her punch it into her phone and call it while you're still together. If the phone rings and lights up right away her number will pop up in incoming or missed calls. When it rings ask her if its her number.

If you give her your number and she doesn't call you right away and gives you an excuse, you ain't getting her number and she isn't interested.

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I always had the assumption to wait a few days after getting a number to contact her. I brought this up with some of my female friends a while ago and every one of them was like "you are an idiot, don't wait that long." Either text the next day or a day later but never longer than that was the prevailing timeline.

as far as sending a conformation text/call, I thought that was common practice. I've always done it either right then and there or a short while later, and vise versa, without any problems

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I tell them im going to call a couple hundred times. And then i just text the next day or so.

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Posted by Bubbles

I always had the assumption to wait a few days after getting a number to contact her. I brought this up with some of my female friends a while ago and every one of them was like "you are an idiot, don't wait that long." Either text the next day or a day later but never longer than that was the prevailing timeline.

as far as sending a conformation text/call, I thought that was common practice. I've always done it either right then and there or a short while later, and vise versa, without any problems



The problem though is that you asked females. I'm not saying waiting that long is the proper thing to do, but it'll probably never be the correct answer when talking to a female. The idea behind waiting that long is to not seem overly interested...basically playing somewhat of a game. So, I doubt you'll find too many females that say, yeah, wait at least a few days. Just as a guy would never tell a girl that it's cool to ______ for the purpose of leverage with a guy. Personally, I say do whatever feels right.

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