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prozacnation1978
8/7/13 2:09:13PM
So last week my girlfriend of three months broke up with me. It was cold. She waited till my lunch hour got in my car gave me my apt key told me we needed to break up and left. All within less than 2 mins.

She texted me a few times this week. I haven't spoke or texted her back since the car. Told me we could be good friends. I have problems expressing my feelings. Right now work has been a bitch so I haven't been taking care if her as much as she deserves. I still feel like shit. It just sucks.

Today a friend of mine gonna try to attempt a sit down with her see where her mind is at. And maybe reconcile.
I know at this points is relationship or nothing. I will stand firmly by either. I don't wanna lose her but friends with a ex you care for is completely out of the question for ever

Anyways. I thought. You guys can just give a brief
Story of a girl that may have gotten away from you or relationship you wish that may have never ended or ended very badly.
prophecy033
8/7/13 2:17:06PM
My last GF I had about 4 years ago I had dated for about a year. It was great for the first 9 months but the last 3 were shit. By the end I cared more about her daughter at the end. She said she needed a break so we took one. Come to find out she went to the beach with some dude. So I called and left a voicemail saying that if she didn't take me off the phine plan that I was gonna leave her with my bill. Got a call from sprint saying she was taking me off her plan. Havent spoken to her since.
shaneTpain
8/7/13 2:37:06PM
sorry to hear that chit Prozac. Girls are cold yoooo. There feelings can turn on a dime! I had a summer fling with a gypsy goddess & at the end of the summer I was moving away for school. I told her the summer was fun but long distance relays never work out BUT she convinces me that we're something more & we should remain in a long distance thing!! So I'm remaining loyal like a chump for 6 months & I find out via a friend that shes fuckin around with some other douche!!! I was pissed!!
postman
8/7/13 3:21:29PM
3 months? Dude just stay quiet. If she comes back then you have the upper hand if she doesn't fuck it.
jakewalters
8/7/13 3:34:38PM
I dated a girl my freshman year of college for about 6 months. I was going home for the summer and she wasn't. Long story short, she really wanted to hang out with her ex-boyfriend but I didn't want to be controlling. I asked if she thought they would get back together, and she said she didn't know. I finished things right there.. here's where shit gets fucked up though. The last thing she told me before refusing to talk to me for 2 months? "I missed my period.". That bitch. She later apologized and said she was just trying to freak me out. Mission accomplished. Luckily I was working like 50 hours a week back home or else I would have worried myself to death.
40ouncetofreedom
8/7/13 3:37:42PM
3 Months isn't very long dude.

Don't put the pussy on a pedestal. If your chick breaks-up with you once. Why would you even care to be interested in taking her back ? Chances are she'll just fuck you over again... Always take the high road and think of it as her loss....Then go out find some uglies, get drunk and super laid.....Remember if you get enough pennies...You'll eventually make a dime.
Shawn91111
8/7/13 3:44:39PM
Sorry to hear. Also why does she have a key after only 3 months?
Wallass
8/7/13 5:02:52PM
I had a rough one 5 years ago. We dated for a year then thought the next step would be moving in together and right from the get-go it went sour. We weren't getting along and about a year and a half into the relationship and 6 months into living together I checked her phone and realized she'd been cheating on me. Not cool of me looking at her phone but I knew shit was up and that proved it. Long story short it was a bad break-up but it led to an unbelievable relationship that I'm in right now with undoubtedly the girl I'm going to marry as I never would have met this girl if I was with the other. The weird part is my current girlfriends sister is dating my best friend Cory (MooseJohnson on the board) and that's how I met her and meanwhile Cory's cousin is dating my ex (he wasn't the one she cheated on me with) but man it made me laugh knowing that she got cheated on by the guy she cheated on me with. Either way karma's a bitch and I'm better off now. Hang in there Prozac things will work out in the long run with or without this girl.
prozacnation1978
8/7/13 5:03:12PM
I gave her a key cause I would leave to work at 530 am
She had work at 7 so she would leave a hour later and lock up. Only 2nd girlfriend I ever gave a key too.

After this week. If she doesnt come back its over for good.
She a sweet girl. Been getting into UFC. Actually beat or tired me in wins 3 of last 4 events.
She has never had boyfriends. No guys wanted to date her. Just use her. Kind of shock she left me.

My friend who has met her is gonna call her within the hour. I just need to find out if I gotta move op.
I had a real connection with this girl. Been years Since I felt like this
Pskinner_mma314
8/7/13 5:26:53PM
Here's a thought....when a girl has never been treated rightand haw always been taken for granted and used, when she finally is gettin treated right, she ddoesn't know how to respond. Girls claim they are more in touch with their emotions, but they're just as big of idiots as we are, they just express it differently. Besides buddy, as has beensaid 3 months ain't no buggy, you were in the puppy love stage and that's prolly why you're feeling so hurt. I've been there, hell I've posted it on this site. At 4 months I thought we were sooooo in looove, then she broke it off and I was devastated. Looking back now after some time, I'm glad that bitch left, to get treated like shit some more. Ya dig your own grave or you build your own tower.

To quote the wise philosopher Rafiki(Lion King):
"Yeah it hurts, you can dwell on it OR.....you can learn fromit"
jjeans
8/7/13 6:47:05PM
I don't want to give you advise as anyone can give it but nobody knows really what's best, everyone thinks there an expert, but everyone's different. But thanks for sharing your story man, it sounds like the girl was so used to something that being in a new situation suddenly freaked her and unsettled her.

It sucks that its affected you though and I hope you're okay.

Let us know if you get any answers though!


My relationships have always ended weirdly... What's weird is I never broke up with them...

First gf - I didn't want to hang out with her friends (3 months)
Second - she didn't want me to be seen out with me (under a month)
Third - she thought I was too friendly with her friends (?!?) (2 months)
Forth - she lived 150 miles away (9 months)
Fifth - she wanted to stay friends (1 month)
Sixth - I cheated on... at the time her best friend (3/4 months)

Only 2 of those properly upset me but things move on. I've been a dick in relationships and girls have been dicks to me, but you gotta learn. I guess that's what makes your situation suck is that you don't have any explanations or anything.
prozacnation1978
8/7/13 9:42:41PM
Me too. Never broke up with anyone.
Only had a handful of relationships.
Three of them were for multiple years
With the last besides this lasting over 6 years.

I just don't wanna hurt their feelings too loyal to stay with them when I want out. Was cheated on once with my fiance when I was 19. It was hell. We dated for a few years. I did everything I could to hold on.

Update. My damm friend been edging me to give her my ex number. I did last night. She was suppose to call her by now. She hasn't yet which pissed me off. The waiting sucks. She is calling her now. If she accepts. Next step is a sit down between my friend nd her. Find out how she feels and stuff. Then last step is me talking to her. Either moving forward or ending it
Shawn91111
8/7/13 9:47:31PM
Damn, engaged at 19, that's rough
prozacnation1978
8/7/13 10:29:24PM
She was my sole mate.
Never since found someone on same level as her not even close. But this girl that broke up with me made me feel like
Something could happen.


Update

My friend made contact. Said it through her off she went silent. I knew she was at work so either tonight or tommorrow ill find out if they will meet and chat. The waiting is killing me.

Reason why my friend and not me. Is cause I have a lot of hurt and betrayel inside me. And I attend to go for the throat and break them down. A lot of hate comes out and I don't wanna say something I will regret
Shawn91111
8/7/13 10:55:37PM
I hope your female friend and ex are ok with each other. Some women feel threatened when a guy has close female friends.
prophecy033
8/7/13 11:08:53PM

Posted by Shawn91111

I hope your female friend and ex are ok with each other. Some women feel threatened when a guy has close female friends.

so true

My girfriend now is such a bad ass chick, she xould care less how many girls I'm friends with.
prozacnation1978
8/7/13 11:20:51PM
They met. My friend is a older women. Not someone u would date. Been friends for years.



Update.


Took a hour but my ex accepted to meet up and have drinks tommorrow with her. I just hope my friend doesnt fuck this up. But I know if a fews days do or die. I gotta express how I feel. And hopefully not close the door forever for her. Any other girl I really wouldnt care at this point.
Michael_Corleone
8/8/13 12:08:47AM
Aside from the occasional "I'm parked right outside your house, don't lie to me", most of my break ups have gone rather well.

Break up with a white girl: cries and stays clingy.

Break up with a black girl: throws a 1-2 uppercut.

Break up with a hispanic girl: talks mad shit and throws sharp objects.
prozacnation1978
8/8/13 12:13:47AM
Update


Looks likes its over.
She just text me friend said her decision will stand not to get back together and that she wasn't playing any games to get closer to me. Pretty fucking cold.
She still gonna meet up with her though.

I'm pretty pissed off and sad. I wanted her in my life and now the chapter is closed. Now all I am thinking is if
Another guy came into play and this is the real reason for the break up. If it is. It's pretty dirty.
prophecy033
8/8/13 12:16:18AM

Posted by Michael_Corleone

Aside from the occasional "I'm parked right outside your house, don't lie to me", most of my break ups have gone rather well.

Break up with a white girl: cries and stays clingy.

Break up with a black girl: throws a 1-2 uppercut.

Break up with a hispanic girl: talks mad shit and throws sharp objects.

jae_1833
8/8/13 1:52:09AM
These stories are why I was the guy I was when I was younger...horrible of me but at least when I found one I commit to it was the right one. Been married for 12 years now. Good luck man, protect your heart and if it makes you feel better totally chew her ass and then walk off.
hotrodttt
8/8/13 2:00:03AM
Sounds like something shady is going on with her if she didn't give you a concrete reason. Best of luck though bud
prozacnation1978
8/8/13 9:19:17AM
This is gonna take a long time to get over.
I mean relationships. Been with years longer times when it
Ended I have no regret not even upset at all. This one hurts a lot. Find out today who it ended. Who she never gave me. closure.

I never was able to express to her how much she meant. A lot of regret.


If you guys have wives and girlfriends. Try to express it more. And just reassure them how much they mean to you.

Cause you never know when it will end
warglory
8/8/13 11:55:38AM

Posted by prozacnation1978

So last week my girlfriend of three months broke up with me. It was cold. She waited till my lunch hour got in my car gave me my apt key told me we needed to break up and left. All within less than 2 mins.

She texted me a few times this week. I haven't spoke or texted her back since the car. Told me we could be good friends. I have problems expressing my feelings. Right now work has been a bitch so I haven't been taking care if her as much as she deserves. I still feel like shit. It just sucks.

Today a friend of mine gonna try to attempt a sit down with her see where her mind is at. And maybe reconcile.
I know at this points is relationship or nothing. I will stand firmly by either. I don't wanna lose her but friends with a ex you care for is completely out of the question for ever

Anyways. I thought. You guys can just give a brief
Story of a girl that may have gotten away from you or relationship you wish that may have never ended or ended very badly.



That's actually the best way to do a break up. I know it sucks, but at least she was respectful and honest enough with you to do it to your face and not beat around the bush.
Shawn91111
8/8/13 4:02:50PM

Posted by warglory


Posted by prozacnation1978

So last week my girlfriend of three months broke up with me. It was cold. She waited till my lunch hour got in my car gave me my apt key told me we needed to break up and left. All within less than 2 mins.

She texted me a few times this week. I haven't spoke or texted her back since the car. Told me we could be good friends. I have problems expressing my feelings. Right now work has been a bitch so I haven't been taking care if her as much as she deserves. I still feel like shit. It just sucks.

Today a friend of mine gonna try to attempt a sit down with her see where her mind is at. And maybe reconcile.
I know at this points is relationship or nothing. I will stand firmly by either. I don't wanna lose her but friends with a ex you care for is completely out of the question for ever

Anyways. I thought. You guys can just give a brief
Story of a girl that may have gotten away from you or relationship you wish that may have never ended or ended very badly.



That's actually the best way to do a break up. I know it sucks, but at least she was respectful and honest enough with you to do it to your face and not beat around the bush.




Very true, getting closure on something is good in the long run instead of thinking all the time what the fuck happened and why it happened. That will eat at you.
prozacnation1978
8/8/13 5:22:38PM
I'll find out the closure in about a hour and a half.

Then probably resent her the rest of my life
jjeans
8/8/13 5:34:15PM

Posted by prozacnation1978

I'll find out the closure in about a hour and a half.

Then probably resent her the rest of my life



Hope you find out what you wanna know, fingers crossed buddy!
jakewalters
8/8/13 5:44:48PM

Posted by prozacnation1978

I'll find out the closure in about a hour and a half.

Then probably resent her the rest of my life



Sounds like a good plan. I'm not even being facetious here lol
prozacnation1978
8/8/13 7:59:36PM
Update.


Meet up was suppose to be at 330
It's now 5pm with no word from my friend. I hope she didn't forget to meet up. Very surprised she hasn't called me.


Could they possible still be at the meet up ?? Would be crazy.

I'm expecting the worse. But if you knew there was a chance a break up would mean not seeing that person again. Wouldnt you wanna give the person closure. Not a quick one min chat in a car
Shawn91111
8/8/13 8:20:24PM
hot lesbo action between friend and ex
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